THE LIST

As anyone should know by now, My blog has become a drive to create awesomeness within yourself. To that end, a group of PUAs have started to compile a list of things that demonstrate an active lifestyle…

People who contributed:
Sinsitive
Antithesis
MHFenix
Alpha Lion
Tony DiNozzo

The rules were that each suggestion had to (and/or):

+ Generate DHV stories
+ Be a positive influence to your body shape
+ Be a good base to social interaction

:::THE LIST:::

Sports
- Join a sportsclub, be part of a team. (soccer/football, hockey, basketball, baseball etc)
- Go to the Gym
- Get a bicycle/recumbent bike and do tours. You could if you have the time do a 2-4 day tour and sleep at strangers.
- Running, you will get to know your neighbourhood a bit better since you’re more on the streets (talk to ppl, sai HI etc) so when you’re going home with a girl odds are lots of people will say HI in a very friendly way. Looks good if they like you.
- Martial Arts Will generate DHV, get you in shape, boost self-confidence

Hobbies
- Have a hobby that generates stories. Making models, for instance, not exciting, donating the models to charity (or auctioning them off with the money going to charity, etc) shows depth of character.
- Collecting stamps is very 1964. However, collecting stuff that includes an active life can help. Sinsitive collects small flags of countries that he has visited (for example). They all have stories (huge DHV) attached.
- Travel. Either within your country, or overseas, maybe even just go to new places in your own city. You’ll meet new people, have some stories to tell and usually have fun…

Music/arts/media
- Learn to play an instrument (guitar works great, nice at parties and everyone seems to own one somewhere)
- Paint and put anything nice in your living room for people to ask about.
- Take dacing lessons
- Photography (DHV, tell models what to do, you’re in authority) Landscapes work well too…

Career/Jobs
- Have a job that you can be proud of. One that generates interesting stories that can show DHV in any way.

- Jobs can also be seen as social events if you work close with others. Pick one that has colleages who add to your skills, life etc etc.

Social meetings
- Join couchsurfing.org and make your house available for 1or more people to stay for a night. Have a good fun night and have lot’s of talks and some drinks. They also have town/region/city meetings so you can meet other couchsurfers in the area. It’s also nice to meet other people from your city and tell them “if I get a request but cant host, can I recommend you?” MEET people.
- Have “movie nights” where you invite 3-10 people, make one HUGE pizza, let them bring drinks etc. (been doing this for 2 years, the strangest things happend haha)
- Have an oldskool monopoly night with 3-4 friends, drinks, music etc.
- Have a WII-evening/night where you compete and once more drink and have fun.
- Go to a coffeeshop, and say hi to people in a very friendly way.
- Restaurants are very nice to eat and have fun. Be aware of good restaurants that cook various cousines!! *looking for a nice place is lame*

Social Knowledge
- Watch lot’s of movies so when movies are discussed you have your opinion about it.
- Keep track of the local/national TOP40/50 so you have an opinion about songs people talk about.
- Be aware of things, politics, events around you, follow the news.

Other
- Get in the media (tv, radio, newspapers.. or even front page of major internet sites) to get DHV stories.
- Learn how to cook great extremely healthy food. knowing what’s what in a supermarket is great to use as an opener and cooking together is fun and def a nice reason to invite a girl over.

- Learn a forgeign language. Especially French and Spanish is nice and romantic.
- Know what good drinks are. Get some basic knowledge of wines and other drinks. Look up some party-drinks.

Internet
- Join some forums (if possible about local stuff so you can meet up easily, btw nice to see you here. ^_^)
- Join social networking sites and say hi to people based on some interests (oh hi, I saw your doing arts.. been doing it for long now? NOT just the general “hi how are ya?”)
- If you have an actife life, post video’s of it online. Show how much fun you are. Your likely to get comments from people with the same interests.
- Have a blog with lot’s of pictures and one liners. People won’t read large amounts of text if its about your life.. but they see a picture in an instance. Once again show them how much fun you are.

So there you go. Stuff that I do, stuff I need to do. Xmas may bring a small facelift to the blog. Pics and one-liners…

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~ by mhfenix on December 21, 2009.