February… almost…
So it’s been a long time since I posted, due to christmas, exams, getting shit sorted, etc and I thought I’d just come on tonight to make a quick post about routines.
Routines in and of themselves are useful, sure, every PUA should have a couple in their pockets for ‘just in case’ moments, but they should not be used in place of a genuine, honest personality. I find that a lot of PUAs I’ve met that rely on these have a fatal lack of personality and while they may be able to pull every once in a while, they have more flakes and less long-term success than a lot of others.
What you need to do instead is learn the CONCEPTS behind the routines and apply your own personality to it. Case and point, one friend of mine used the ‘who lies more’ opener the other day. I could have slapped him! He used it as a crutch to talk to these girls rather than saying something natural and spontaneous.
DHVs should be stories from your own life, like I could tell about high school art teacher, the plays i’ve been in, the movie i’m auditioning for, etc etc. take the concept, apply yourself.
that’s it for today. it’s half 1 in the morning and i’m tired. ciao.
